Kenan79 wrote:^^You're right Jonesy, I may be arrogant and self-indulgent to claim what I claim.
However, I know this guy, I know how much time he has spent in our dojo and how much time I have spent practicing in the dojo as well. I also know which one of us has more competition tournament under our belts and his rank before he went to Japan.
I know I'm "risking" a lot by saying all these things (being accused of being arrogant etc) but even before posting this, I kinda decided the best thing would be to, as you advised, take the high ground and accept it.
As for your point nr 5., he was in Japan for 2 weeks or so (attending kata seminar) and from what I could hear from the colleagues who were there, all he did was a kata and this is how he got his Dan rank.
However, to be fair, I'm gonna ask around and find out if he had to meet any additional requirements (you mentioned).
I am assuming that this person is not a Japanese citizen but a foreigner. If so, there are only 3 ways he could have been awarded a black belt by the Kôdôkan:
1. He participated in the kôhaku-shiai or tsukinami-shiai and won the necessary point that according to Japanese standards allowed promotion.
2. He obtained a black belt abroad and carried a letter signed by the president of his IJF-recognized jûdô federation to seek recognition of the rank by the Kôdôkan. (according to you this is not an option as he only held orange belt)
3. He somehow slipped through the cracks either through a material error, misunderstanding or misrepresentation.
Whilst there is also a technical jûdô seminar that 'prepares' you for black belt, I believe that in the past the option was not on offer for foreigners to actually directly receive a Kôdôkan black belt upon completing it, but it could have changed and if so, this would create another option.
In any case, one thing you have to realize is that unfortunately standards are completely different between some countries, especially countries in different continents. In many European countries, obtaining a black belt traditionally required winning 10 tsukinami shiai points against people who held at least 1st kyû and who were not limited to your age group, followed by a technical exam in front of an independent national jury, whereas in the US for example even your own teacher all by himself can give you a black belt and this just by completing paperwork, no juries or tsukinami-shiai victories required.
Until a couple of decades ago, 18 years in many European countries was regarded about the minimum age to acquire black belt, and obtaining it at 16 or 17 years was considered truly exceptional since it meant that you had beaten at least 10 seniors whilst still a junior or even younger yourself. In Japan though even before the Second World War, obtaining black belt at 15 years of age was not unheard of, and the currently the minimal age for shodan at the Kôdôkan is 14 years. This is also understandable given the long tradition, and exposure of many kids to jûdô. When you see kids jûdô practice in Japan, that is also undestandable; contrary to the West where kids jûdô usually amounts to nothing but playing games, in Japan they actually seriously practice jûdô.
When I first went to Switzerland in the early 1970s, I saw many foreigners there, adults trying to stand on skis and carefully making their first steps in the snow. Guess, what, the Swiss kids, many of them just looking like they were barely 8 years old, plowed through the snow on their skis like professionals at a level that most of the foreign adults likely would never achieve.
I can understand how you feel. You shouldn't feel like that, but I can understand it. Unfortunately our world is rather competitive and we are educated as if competing with others is the way to go. Everything we do or are we compare ourselves to others: who is better, faster, stronger, smarter, richer, more attractive, more successful. Doing so, probably has some merit at a certain stage in our life where we still need to work towards developing our full potential. But as we progress on our path we will also learn to understand this paradox and that human value exists in ourselves in what we mean to our loved ones, what we can do to support others, rather than realizing comparative superlatives. But in the mean time, yes, it is understandable.
I hope you will take the time to find back some of the old posts which our friend Hanon-sensei wrote with great wisdom on jûdô ranks. Among these I recall things such as:
- the only people in jûdô who don't care about rank are either those whose rank is either so low or so high. Indeed, a remarkable phenomenon in jûdô is very high-rank holders who spent most of their lives selling out to get to a rank incommensurate with their abilities, who afterwards will insist that rank has no importance.
- one's abilities show on the tatami, not by the color of the belt one wears around his waist. After all, if you want a black belt, or even a red-/white or white belt, you can just purchase one for $15 on eBay.
- the higher the rank, the greater the responsibility and scrutiny by others.
Whatever the way your colleague obtained his rank, really it is his problem, not yours. His value will assessed by the others who meet him on the tatami. In fact, you have already started doing so yourself. He will know that too. If such explanation is not satisfactory for you, and you cannot sleep at night and are close to requiring professional help because someone obtained a black belt before you or under conditions you feel are not fair to you, well, nothing prevents you from doing the same. Clearly, if you know how and where he did it, repeat it yourself. But before you decide to spend some of your savings to doing so, please do realize, that just as you now feel that he is not wearing a rank that reflects his true level, the same might happen to others when you do the same and repeat his achievement. You need to decide what it is for you that is the most important for you. If indeed you are convinced that he is not worthy of it and that your technical level is much better, I would indeed recommend that rather than spending $2,500 to go to Japan, that instead you order a $15 black belt on eBay, hang it on the wall in your bedroom in front of you, so you can see it as the first thing in the morning when you wake up and the last thing when you go to sleep, and let it hang there as a motivator while you continue practicing until the day arrives that you formally obtain it and can take it off the wall.
Oh, and if you think that this is the end of the story, no it isn't. The same will repeat itself for 2nd, 3rd, and 4th dan or higher. Actually, I'll let you in on a secret. Maybe you didn't think of this, but I can assure you that many of us despite being 3rd, 4th, or 5th dan or whatever, still haven't grown up, and maybe even never will. Just like beauty, dan ranks mostly exist in the eye of the beholder ...
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